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17th Aug 2026

#161. When Following God Costs You + When Obeying God Means Standing Alone | Jeremiah 19-24

Jeremiah 19–24: Raising Kids Who Know God, Not Just Religion

What does it really mean to know God? And how can we raise children whose faith goes deeper than religious habits, church attendance, or simply knowing the “right” answers?

In this episode of The Dwelling Place Bible Podcast for Busy Moms, Stephanie Hickox walks through Jeremiah chapters 19–24 and shows how these ancient warnings speak directly to Christian moms and biblical parenting today.

Jeremiah continues confronting Judah over their rebellion against God, their oppression of the vulnerable, their rejection of God's Word, and their dependence on false prophets who promised peace when judgment was coming. Yet in the middle of these sobering chapters, we find a beautiful promise: God would raise up a righteous King from the line of David—the Lord our righteousness.

As we study Jeremiah, we're reminded that biblical parenting isn't simply about teaching our children religious behaviors. We want to raise children who know God, love His Word, recognize truth, stand firm when following Jesus is difficult, and have compassion for those who are vulnerable and oppressed.

In This Episode, You'll Discover:

  • Why God used the broken pottery in Jeremiah 19 as a picture of coming judgment
  • The persecution Jeremiah experienced from religious leaders
  • What Jeremiah's lament teaches us about following God when obedience is painful
  • Why Jeremiah could continue speaking God's truth even when others rejected his message
  • The difference between a religious leader who tells people what they want to hear and a faithful messenger of God's Word
  • What God's commands to the kings of Judah teach us about justice, compassion, and caring for the vulnerable
  • Why God repeatedly mentions the fatherless, widows, foreigners, and oppressed
  • What it means to truly know God
  • The fascinating prophecy concerning Coniah/Jeconiah and the line of David
  • The promise of the coming “righteous Branch” and how it points us to Jesus
  • Why Jesus is uniquely qualified to reign as the righteous King
  • Jeremiah's warning about false prophets
  • How Christian moms can teach their children to evaluate teachers, podcasts, books, influencers, and messages according to Scripture
  • Why our children need more than inspiring Christian content—they need to know God's Word for themselves

Raising Kids Who Know God

One of the most beautiful challenges in this passage comes when God says of King Josiah:

“He judged the cause of the poor and needy; then it was well. Is not this to know me?”
—Jeremiah 22:16

Knowing God isn't merely intellectual. Knowing God changes the way we live.

When we understand God's character, we should become people who care about the things He cares about. That means biblical parenting involves teaching our children not only to read the Bible and attend church, but also to love their neighbors, care for the vulnerable, stand for what is right, and treat others with compassion.

Jeremiah's message challenges us to ask whether our children's faith is becoming something they genuinely own—or whether we're simply teaching them a list of Christian practices.

Teaching Kids Biblical Discernment

Jeremiah also gives Christian parents an important warning about false teaching.

The people rejected Jeremiah partly because they didn't like his message. The false prophets, meanwhile, offered messages of peace and reassurance that sounded much more appealing.

That is still a valuable lesson for our families.

Our children will encounter countless voices telling them what is true—through social media, YouTube, podcasts, books, teachers, celebrities, influencers, and even religious leaders.

We don't want to teach our kids to simply follow the most popular Christian voice.

We want to teach them to know God's Word well enough to recognize what agrees with it.

That means helping our children develop a biblical habit of asking:

“What does Scripture say?”

When Following God Means Standing Alone

Jeremiah knew what it meant to obey God when obedience brought rejection.

He was mocked, persecuted, imprisoned, and opposed—even by people within his own religious community. Yet he continued to proclaim God's Word.

That's an important lesson for our children.

We can't promise our kids that following Jesus will always make them popular. But we can teach them that faithfulness to God is worth the cost.

Jeremiah's life gives us an opportunity to pray that our children will have the courage to speak truth with humility, remain faithful when they're misunderstood, and trust that God's presence is greater than the approval of others.

Jesus, the Righteous King

After confronting Judah's wicked kings, Jeremiah gives us a glorious glimpse of the King who would come:

“I will raise up for David a righteous Branch, and he shall reign as king and deal wisely, and shall execute justice and righteousness in the land.”
—Jeremiah 23:5

And then comes the name:

“The Lord is our righteousness.”

Jeremiah's message doesn't end with wicked kings, false prophets, judgment, and failure. It points us toward the perfect King and Shepherd—Jesus Christ.

Jesus is the righteous King who does what Judah's kings could not. He is the Good Shepherd who cares for His people, and He is the One whose righteousness we desperately need.

As moms, we don't simply want to raise “good kids.” We want to point our children to the perfect Savior who makes sinners righteous.

A Prayer for Moms

As you listen, consider praying:

Lord, help me raise children who truly know You—not children who simply know how to practice Christianity. Give them a deep love for Your Word, courage to stand for truth, compassion for the vulnerable, and discernment to recognize false teaching. Help me model these things in my own life. Keep me from being captivated by popularity, personalities, or platforms, and make me captivated by You and Your Word. Thank You that Jesus is our righteous King and that we can trust Your promises. Amen.

Bible Reading

This episode covers:

Jeremiah 19–24

If you're following along with a chronological Bible reading plan, this episode is part of our journey through Jeremiah as we continue studying God's Word in its historical context.

Resources Mentioned:

Commentaries Most Referenced: Moody Commentary, MacArthur Commentary

Transcript
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This is The Dwelling Place

from Entrusted Ministries.

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I'm Stephanie Hickox.

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As we glean from Jeremiah 19 through

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that although Jeremiah was speaking

to a different people in a different

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time, God's Word thoroughly applies

to our lives and our parenting today.

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In chapter 19, God gives

Jeremiah directions

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To provide yet another illustration of

his impending judgment upon Jerusalem

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God asks him to buy some pottery and to

go to the valley of the son of Hinnom

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And declare that disaster is coming

upon it because they have filled the

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place With the blood of innocence

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God said it would become known

as the Valley of Slaughter

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After all of these sacrifices,

the valley was full of bones

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and next God tells Jeremiah to break

the pottery, because he is about

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to break the people and the city

in a way that could never be mended

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God declares that their most beautiful

city of Jerusalem was going to become

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like this valley filled with bones

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When you think about the most beautiful

city in the world, what comes to mind?

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Is it Paris, New York,

Prague, Singapore, Florence?

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If someone told you that city was soon

going to look like a concentration camp,

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You'd be shocked as well Honestly, it

helps me to think about the most wicked

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influences that we know about in our time

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It's easy to understand God's judgment

when we're talking about the Nazi Party.

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But the Assyrians, the Phoenicians,

the Amorites, the Moabites, and these

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different groups of Canaanites not

only terrorized their enemies, they

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were sacrificing their own families.

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So when God says He wants to judge

them, we should rejoice in His

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redemptive justice instead of wonder

why God would wipe out a wicked people

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In chapter 20, we're introduced to Pashur.

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He's a priest and one of the chief

officers in the temple, and he's

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completely offended by Jeremiah's message

It seems odd because as a priest, he

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should understand that Jeremiah is

speaking in line with the judgments God

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told them would occur in Deuteronomy 28

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Then Pashur beat Jeremiah the

prophet and put him in the stocks

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that were in the Upper Benjamin

Gate of the house of the Lord.

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This was a very public punishment,

but Jeremiah didn't back down.

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The next day, when Pashur released

Jeremiah from the stocks, Jeremiah said

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to him, " The Lord does not call your

name Pashur, but Terror on Every Side."

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Peshor means freedom.

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But as God describes the judgment

that's going to come upon him, it is

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terrifying And it doesn't come about

only because he persecuted Jeremiah.

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It's also because he was filling

the people with lies, giving them

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comfort that judgment wasn't coming.

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A true messenger and priest

of the Lord should have

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encouraged the people to repent.

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There isn't much of a transition,

but all of a sudden in chapter 20,

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verse 7, we read a prayer of Jeremiah.

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It seems to be words of lament, which,

to quote Pastor Mark Vroegop, is a

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prayer made in pain that turns to praise.

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But Jeremiah's lament is a

little bit of a rollercoaster.

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Jeremiah processes a lot of different

emotions here, And maybe you'll find him

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more relatable after I read it O Lord,

you have deceived me, and I was deceived.

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You are stronger than I,

and you have prevailed.

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I have become a laughingstock all the day.

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Everyone mocks me, For

whenever I speak, I cry out, I

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shout violence and destruction.

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For the word of the Lord has become for

me a reproach and derision all day long.

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If I say, 'I will not mention Him

or speak anymore in His name,' there

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is in my heart as it were a burning

fire shut up in my bones, And I am

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weary with holding it in and I cannot.

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For I hear many whispering,

' Terror is on every side.'"

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" Denounce him, let us denounce him," say

all my close friends watching for my fall.

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" Perhaps he will be deceived.

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Then we can overcome him and

take our revenge on him."

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But the Lord is with me as

a dread warrior; therefore,

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my persecutors will stumble.

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They will not overcome me.

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They will be greatly shamed,

for they will not succeed.

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Their eternal dishonor

will never be forgotten.

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O Lord of hosts, who tests the righteous,

who sees the heart and the mind,

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let me see your vengeance upon them.

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For to you have I commanded my cause.

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Sing to the Lord, praise the Lord,

for he has delivered the life of

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the needy from the hand of evildoers

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Yes, Jeremiah reached the point of praise.

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But next, he curses the

day that he was born

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Let's go back to verse seven.

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I really appreciate the

clarity that Charles Dyer and

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Eva Rydelnik provide to this.

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The NASB says Jeremiah felt

that God had deceived him.

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However, the word can mean to be

enticed, coerced, or persuaded.

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A more helpful translation would

be, " You coerced me into being a

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prophet, and I allowed you to do it.

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You overcame my resistance

and prevailed over me."

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God didn't trick Jeremiah.

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In fact, He told them from

the beginning that Jeremiah's

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message would not be successful

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but after decades of serving the Lord in

this way, Jeremiah's thinking, " As long

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as I speak for you, I get persecuted."

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he even considers the idea of

not saying God's name anymore

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But that thought is fleeting because there

is a burning fire in his heart to speak

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the word of the Lord Even his closest

friends are wanting him to be proved wrong

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And part of me understands this just

a little bit because Jeremiah was

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saying that awful things were going

to happen to all of them, but they

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forgot it was their own sin that

was bringing about the judgment

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Aren't you fascinated by that phrase, "But

the Lord is with me as a dread warrior"?

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This is a fierce description

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Of a ruthless, mighty hero,

champion, and defender.

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Jeremiah had full confidence that

his persecutors would stumble

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And I delight in how much God reveals

His character Throughout His Word.

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verse 12 we read that

God tests the righteous.

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It's encouraging because if He's

testing the righteous, He's giving

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them an opportunity to prove

themselves so He can reward them

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And at the conclusion, it's possible

that when Jeremiah cursed the day he

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was born, He may have been saying,

" God, the message you've given me

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to deliver is a really hard one.

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I know all that's going to come

about, and maybe it's better if

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I wasn't even born to deliver it

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But Jeremiah was chosen before he

was even born to be God's messenger

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at the exact right time

in the exact kingdom

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In chapters 21 through 23, God

confronts the wickedness of

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the kings through His prophet.

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He starts with the current king,

Zedekiah But after that, he goes

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back chronologically through

some of the most recent kings

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God tells Zedekiah, " I myself will

fight against you with outstretched

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hand and strong arm, in anger

and in fury and in great wrath.

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For I have set my face against

this city for harm and not

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for good," declares the Lord.

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For harm and not for good.

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It shall be given into the

hand of the king of Babylon,

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and he shall burn it with fire

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But as is consistent with

the Lord, He offers a choice.

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" Behold, I set before you the way

of life and the way of death."

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God encourages Zedekiah to surrender

to the Chaldeans And reveals that

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will actually be the place of

protection not resisting against them

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If you're confused about why all of

a sudden the Bible's talking about

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Chaldeans , when we thought the

Babylonians were coming against them, I

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get it, it's confusing, but scripture uses

Babylonians and Chaldeans interchangeably

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I think you'll appreciate

why God is rebuking the kings

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Jeremiah tells Zechariah, " Do justice

and righteousness, and deliver from

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the hand of the oppressor him who

has been robbed: and do no more wrong

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or violence to the resident alien,

the fatherless, and the widow, nor

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shed innocent blood in this place.

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And if he repents and stops oppressing

the innocent people God says he will

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use him to continue the throne of David

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The call to be a Davidic king was

to do justice and righteousness

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and to care for the oppressed.

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And we see that list once

again, the fatherless, the widow

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and the innocents, and the innocent

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Because our God is a God of

love, following Him should

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transform our treatment of others

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But these kings neither

love God nor love people

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Next, listen to the strong rebuke

toward Josiah's son Shallum.

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" Woe to him who builds his house by

unrighteousness, and his upper rooms

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by injustice; who makes his neighbor

serve him for nothing, and does not give

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him his wages; who says, ' I will build

myself a great house, with spacious upper

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rooms'; who cuts out windows for it,

paneling it with cedar and painting it

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with vermilion; " Do you think you are

a king because you can eat and sit here?

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Did not your father eat and drink

and do justice and righteousness?

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Then it was well with him.

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He judged the cause of the poor

and needy; then it was well.

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Is not this to know Me?"

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declares the Lord.

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But you have eyes and heart only

for your dishonest gain, for

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shedding innocent blood, and for

practicing oppression and violence

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Shalom was taxing the people

and profiting from it.

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They were frustrated because he was

thriving while they were struggling.

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And meanwhile, he was

painting his walls red.

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That's what vermilion means.

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This whole description makes me

think of Louis XIV of France,

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who also oppressed his people.

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They were starving to death while

he was throwing lavish balls at

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Versailles Truly, this son is far

from the example his father set

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I love that line that God

says, " Is not this to know me?"

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When we stand up for the cause of

the poor and needy That reveals

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that we know the Lord I was so

excited when we were studying Josiah

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and the reforms he brought about.

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But it's quite evident the more we

read through Jeremiah that Josiah's

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example wasn't truly embraced

in the hearts of the people.

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God used him for a time But as soon

as he was out of the picture, they

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continued their wicked practices.

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it seems that his reforms penetrated

deeply in his own heart, but

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not as much so in the people

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The last king rebuked is

Coniah, the son of Jehoiakim

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and there is a powerful yet extremely

negative prophecy written about him.

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Thus says the Lord, " Write this man down

as childless, a man who shall not succeed

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in his days, for none of his offspring

shall succeed in sitting on the throne

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of David and ruling again in Judah."

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You know what?

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This king had seven sons, and

we know all of their names,

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but none of them became king.

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This is an incredibly important prophecy

because it says that none of his

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offspring will sit on the throne of David.

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This is fascinating because the

person who rules after him is

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Zedekiah, not his son, his uncle

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and if you look to the genealogy

of Jesus in Matthew chapter 1

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Coniah, or Jeconiah as he's

also known, has a son listed.

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Now, did this prophecy not come true?

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What happened?

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Well, we'll talk more about this

later, but Matthew 1 records

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Joseph, Jesus' earthly guardian.

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But Jesus did not come through Joseph's

bloodline Luke records Mary's genealogy

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And it's this bloodline

through which Jesus comes

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If he hadn't, he would've

been disqualified from

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sitting on the throne of David

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We'll get into it more later,

but I hope you know by now that

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genealogies can be exciting too

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After God rebukes all of these

wicked kings for their oppressive

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deeds, God explains why the

coming king is so superior.

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" Then I will gather the remnant of

my flock out of all the countries

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where I have driven them, and I will

bring them back to their fold, and

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they shall be fruitful and multiply.

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I will set shepherds over them who

will care for them, and they shall

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fear no more, nor be dismayed.

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Neither shall any be

missing," declares the Lord.

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" Behold, the days are coming declares the

Lord, when I will raise up for David a

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righteous branch, and he shall reign as

king and deal wisely, and shall execute

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justice and righteousness in the land.

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In his days Judah will be saved,

and Israel will dwell securely.

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And this is the name by which he will be

called, ' The Lord is our righteousness.'

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Don't miss that that title shows that

Jesus will be the righteous king, that

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he is God, and that he is the Redeemer

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And after reading about the good shepherd

who is to come, rebukes the false

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prophets that have led their flock astray.

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They've deceived the people

saying all will be well

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And God is well aware In verse

23, " Am I a God at hand," declares

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the Lord, " and not a God far away?

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Can a man hide himself in secret

places so that I cannot see him?"

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declares the Lord.

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" Do I not fill heaven and earth?"

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declares the Lord.

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" I have heard what the prophets have

said, who prophesy lies in my name.

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and to further confirm that

surrendering to the Chaldeans

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will bring about a greater result.

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In chapter 24, God gives Jeremiah

a vision of two baskets of figs

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We have an abundance of historical

confirmation that these events really

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happened And we can rejoice in a God who

sees all things and hears all things,

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and whose word always comes to pass.

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there may be times our own kids are

tempted to not speak about their

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faith or speak about the Lord,

as Jeremiah himself was tempted.

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And we can remind them through

Jeremiah's example that even when

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there is persecution, following

God will always be worth it

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And we can train them that knowing

God often looks like standing up for

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the needy and the oppressed Just like

the Lord, we're to have eyes to see

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and we're to bless the

needs of those around us

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And finally, when we read about

the false prophets, we're reminded

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that we're called to be discerning,

to not believe all that we hear

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And this quote in the Moody

commentary was so on point the

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people were rejecting Jeremiah

because they didn't like his message.

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Similarly, people today must guard against

the tendency to become attached to a

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religious leader based solely on outward

appearances or their presentation of

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endlessly inspiring or engaging messages

that ignore sin and its consequences.

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God's people then and now must always

evaluate every teacher, message, and

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book by the contents of Scripture, which

means they must spend time digesting

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God's Word in order to know what it

says Heavenly Father We rejoice that

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you are the Lord our righteousness.

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though it feels somewhat uncomfortable

to call ourselves righteous, we thank you

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that we can cling to your faithfulness

because we know that when you promise

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something, you will bring it to pass

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And it's because of this that we can

confidently pray that you would help

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us become more and more like you

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We pray we would be discerning.

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Rather than getting caught up in

YouTube channels or podcasts with large

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followings or influencers or platforms

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Help us to be captivated by you alone.

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Lord, I pray once again for

myself that I would only speak

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the words that you call me to.

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And if anything I say is not in

line with the truth of your Word,

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I pray you would give the moms that

listen discernment to cast it off

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We pray you would give our children a

deep fire that they must speak your word

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regardless of persecution or consequences.

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Help them to be winsome and feel an

unshakable sense of justice and compassion

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for the oppressed Jesus, we thank

you that you are perfectly qualified

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to sit on the throne in the line of

David, and we long to see you worshiped

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for the righteous branch that you are.

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Amen

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