#162. Jeremiah 25–30: What Jeremiah 29:11 Really Means for Christian Moms--Hope, Not Smooth Sailing!
Does Jeremiah 29:11 mean that God promises us an easy life?
Many Christian moms have heard the familiar words, “For I know the plans I have for you…” But what if we've been applying this beloved verse without understanding the difficult circumstances in which God originally spoke it?
In this episode of The Dwelling Place Bible Podcast for Busy Moms, Stephanie Hickox walks through Jeremiah chapters 25–30 and takes a closer look at Jeremiah 29:11, biblical interpretation, God's promises, and what it means to faithfully follow Him when life doesn't turn out the way we expected.
And Stephanie shares a rather memorable honeymoon story involving a missing hammock, a disappointing buffet, a broken-down speedboat, a Bible caught in a tropical storm, and a very long ride home—all to illustrate the danger of believing promises that sound wonderful but don't actually deliver what we expected.
The same principle matters when we're teaching our children about God.
Following Jesus does not guarantee smooth sailing. But God does promise that He is faithful, that He is working according to His good purposes, and that ultimately our greatest treasure is dwelling with Him.
In This Episode, You'll Discover:
- Why God repeatedly called Judah to listen and obey His Word
- How many opportunities God gave His people to repent before judgment came
- Why Judah's 70 years of Babylonian captivity mattered
- What Jeremiah's message teaches us about biblical obedience and parenting
- Why God still calls His people to faithfully live and serve even during difficult circumstances
- The danger of false prophets who promise peace without repentance
- The story of Jeremiah's yoke and what it teaches about surrendering to God's will
- Why we need to be careful about taking familiar Bible verses out of their historical and biblical context
- What Jeremiah 29:11 actually meant to the Israelites in Babylon
- How to distinguish between the original meaning of a passage and its application to our lives today
- Why God's good plans don't necessarily mean an easy, comfortable, or pain-free life
- How the cross of Jesus gives us the ultimate picture of God's ability to bring redemption from suffering
- How Christian moms can avoid teaching their children a prosperity-gospel version of Christianity
- Why we should prepare our children to expect faithfulness—not necessarily comfort
- What Jeremiah 30 begins to reveal about God's future restoration of His people
What Does Jeremiah 29:11 Really Mean?
Jeremiah 29:11 is one of the most quoted verses among Christians:
“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”
But who was God speaking to?
He was speaking to Israelite exiles living in Babylon.
They weren't being promised that their circumstances would immediately improve. In fact, God had just told them that their captivity would last 70 years.
Many of them would never return home.
And yet God told them to build houses, plant gardens, marry, have children, multiply, seek the welfare of Babylon, and pray for the city where they lived.
Their hope wasn't found in an immediate change of circumstances.
Their hope was found in God.
That's an important distinction for us as Christian moms.
Biblical Hope Doesn't Mean an Easy Life
It's tempting to tell ourselves—or our children—that if we follow God, everything will eventually work out the way we want.
But Scripture doesn't make that promise.
Following Jesus can involve suffering, disappointment, persecution, financial difficulty, relational struggles, illness, grief, and seasons that last far longer than we expected.
God's goodness doesn't mean that every difficult circumstance will disappear.
Instead, God uses even difficult circumstances to make us more like Christ and ultimately brings His people into the fullness of His presence.
The cross is the greatest example.
When Jesus died, it looked like hope had been completely lost.
But God was accomplishing redemption through what appeared to be the greatest tragedy.
God's good plans are often bigger than our definition of “good.”
A Lesson for Christian Parenting
This is especially important when we're raising children.
We don't want to accidentally teach our kids a false gospel that says:
Follow God and He'll make your life easy.
Instead, we can teach them:
Follow God because He is worthy.
Obey Him because He is good.
Trust Him when you don't understand.
Expect Him to be with you in difficulty.
Remember that your greatest treasure isn't comfort—it is Christ.
That kind of faith can withstand disappointment.
Teaching Our Kids to Listen and Obey
One of the repeated themes throughout Jeremiah is the importance of listening to God's Word and obeying it.
God repeatedly warned Judah. He sent prophets. He called them to repentance. He gave them opportunities to turn from their sin.
They refused to listen.
As parents, this gives us a helpful framework for biblical parenting.
We can clearly communicate God's standards to our children, give them age-appropriate expectations, and lovingly hold them accountable—not because obedience earns God's love, but because God's Word is good and His commands lead us toward what is true and life-giving.
And we can model this ourselves.
Our children need to see that we're not merely asking them to obey God's Word.
We're learning to listen and obey Him too.
Don't Give Your Children a False Gospel
One of the most important parenting applications from this episode is this:
What kind of Christianity are we presenting to our children?
If we teach them that God exists primarily to make them happy, comfortable, successful, or prosperous, what happens when suffering comes?
They may conclude that God has failed them.
But if we teach them from childhood that Jesus is worth following even when obedience is difficult, they can learn to cling to Him when life doesn't go according to plan.
We can teach our kids that God's presence is better than comfort, His Word is more trustworthy than our feelings, and His purposes are better than our plans.
Jeremiah 29:11 and the Christian Life
Jeremiah 29:11 was not a promise of smooth sailing.
And neither is the Christian life.
But it is a beautiful reminder that God has not abandoned His people.
He knows His plans.
He is faithful.
He gives His people hope.
And ultimately, He brings His people home to Himself.
As moms, that's the hope we want to pass down to our children.
Bible Reading
This episode covers:
Jeremiah 25–30
If you're following along with a chronological Bible reading plan, this episode will help you understand Jeremiah's prophecies within the historical circumstances surrounding Judah's exile and Babylonian captivity.
Questions for Reflection
As you listen, consider:
- Am I teaching my children that following God guarantees an easy life?
- Do I trust God when His plans don't look like what I expected?
- Am I more committed to my children's comfort or to their faithfulness?
- Do my children see me listening to and obeying God's Word?
- Have I taken any Bible verses out of context because I wanted them to promise something God never promised?
- How can I teach my children that Jesus Himself is our greatest treasure?
A Prayer for Christian Moms
Heavenly Father, help us to be women who listen to and obey Your Word. Teach us to trust You when circumstances don't look the way we expected. Keep us from giving our children a false gospel filled with promises of earthly comfort and prosperity. Instead, help us teach them that You are worthy of our complete devotion, even when following You is difficult. Fix our eyes on Jesus and the cross, where we see that You can bring redemption even when all hope seems lost. Help us raise children who trust You, love Your Word, and believe that dwelling with You is our greatest treasure. Amen.
If you're looking for a Bible podcast for busy moms that helps you understand Scripture in its context while applying God's Word to motherhood and family life, join us here at The Dwelling Place.
Resources Mentioned:
- Entrusted With a Child's Heart
- The Again Podcast: Interview with Chris McKenna Part 1, Part 2
- Full-Circle Discipline Resources
- Journey Through the Bible
Commentaries Most Referenced: Moody Commentary, MacArthur Commentary
Transcript
This is The Dwelling Place
from Entrusted Ministries.
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:I'm Stephanie Hickox.
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:As we dig into Jeremiah 25 through 30
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:I'll share with you why getting ripped
off on my honeymoon reminds me of
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:how people misapply God's promise
in Jeremiah We'll also ask, does
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:this verse still apply to us today?
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:In chapter 25, we read Jeremiah's
11th message of condemnation to Judah
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:As I read a few verses, I want you to
attend to what God asked His people to do.
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:Beginning in verse three: For
twenty-three years, from the
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:thirteenth year of Josiah the son
of Amon, king of Judah, to this day,
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:the word of the Lord has come to
me, and I have spoken persistently
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:to you, but you have not listened.
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:You have neither listened Nor inclined
your ears to hear, although the Lord
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:persistently sent to you all his servants
the prophets, saying, " Turn now every
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:one of you from his evil way and deeds,
and dwell upon the land that the Lord has
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:given to you and your fathers from of old
and forever Do not go after other gods
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:to serve and worship them or provoke
me to anger with the work of your hands.
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:then I will do you no harm.
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:Yet you have not listened
to me, declares the Lord
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:That you might provoke me to anger with
the work of your hands to your own harm
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:And in verse eight, God tells them
because they have not obeyed His
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:words, He is sending Nebuchadnezzar,
the king of Babylon, to take them into
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:captivity God was rebuking the people
for not listening and obeying His words
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:Listening and obeying is a
thoroughly biblical idea.
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:And these portions of scripture where it's
repeated over and over are like fuel in
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:my tank for my parenting because I know
that's what God requires of believers.
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:It encourages me to continue to have
that expectation for my kids, that
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:I would clearly communicate what I
expect of them and what God expects,
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:and that I would hold them to that
in an age-appropriate, loving way.
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:Back to Jeremiah's message aren't
you astonished at the amount of
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:times that God warns them and
offers them a chance to repent?
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:And yet he knows what will happen
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:in 25:11, Jeremiah has a mic drop moment.
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:For the first time, he reveals how
long they'll be in captivity in
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:Babylon, and I assure you it's not
what they wanted to hear 70 years.
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:That's seven zero.
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:It doesn't matter what
the life expectancy was.
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:Basically, they're being informed
if they went into captivity, they
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:weren't coming back, and their
kids may not come back either
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:Steph: their syncretistic
worship of Yahweh and other gods
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:Deeply impacted their children
and the future generations And
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:chapter 25 concludes with God
rebuking the leaders in the temple.
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:They were given a charge to shepherd
their flock, and because they did
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:not, their judgment would be severe
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:Jeremiah's 12th message
condemning Judah is in chapter 26
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:Astoundingly, in verse three, God says,
"It may be they will listen and everyone
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:turn from his evil way that I may relent
of the disaster that I intend to do
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:to them because of their evil deeds."
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:Thus says the Lord, " If you will not
listen to me, to walk in my law that I
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:have set before you, and to listen to the
words of my servants, the prophets, whom
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:I send to you urgently, though you have
not listened, then I will make this house
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:like Shiloh, and I will make this city a
curse for all the nations of the earth."
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:Did you notice the verb that was said
four times in those couple of verses?
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:Listen.
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:God wants His people to
listen so they can obey Him.
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:And at this point, He's still willing
to relent from His plan Given what
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:we've read so far about the priests
of the temple, how do you think
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:they received Jeremiah's message?
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:Sadly, but not surprisingly,
they decide he should die
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:for proclaiming that anything
negative will happen to Jerusalem.
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:But they're contemplating whether
or not God would punish them if they
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:did so And once again, God protects
Jeremiah from their evil intentions.
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:it's in this 13th message that God
calls Jeremiah to another object lesson.
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:He's to put a yoke on
his neck as he preaches
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:A yoke is huge and heavy, But God
was ensuring that all people, whether
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:they were visual or auditory learners,
had no excuse Once again, he tells
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:them, " Allow yourself to be yoked
and surrender to the king of Babylon.
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:Don't rebel against him.
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:It will go so much better
for you if you submit."
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:he reminds them that if they try to
rebel, their destruction is imminent.
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:There's a false prophet named Hananiah
Who breaks the yoke off Jeremiah's neck?
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:Jeremiah may have been a little
relieved that Hananiah's rebellion
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:removed this heavy yoke from his back
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:But God declares, " Go ahead,
Hananiah, break this wooden one.
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:I will replace it with iron."
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:And for his bold rebellion to the
Lord, he died two months later
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:There were many false prophets arising
wanting to give the people peace, but this
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:wasn't helpful because it wasn't requiring
them to turn from their wickedness.
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:You can't have the blessing
of peace without obedience.
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:Now we come to Jeremiah's
14th message in chapter 29
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:There are verses that you're sure to know
and have likely found encouragement from
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:But we want to be careful
about which verses we apply to
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:ourselves as believers today.
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:Remember, scripture only has
one proper interpretation.
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:The words of God were written
for a specific situation at
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:a specific point in history.
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:But God's word can have many applications.
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:You and I can come to the same verse
and find different encouragement
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:and hope for what we're walking
through But that doesn't change the
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:context to which it was written in
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:When Nebuchadnezzar brought the people
to Babylon, he did it in three waves
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:Already at this point, there were many
people from Judah dwelling in Babylon.
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:But there were false prophets saying,
"Don't worry, it's gonna be fine.
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:God will help us return home in no time."
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:And Jeremiah writes this letter
to them saying, "That's not true.
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:God already told you it would be 70
years of captivity and beginning in
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:verse four, he writes, " Thus says the
Lord of Hosts, the God of Israel to
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:all the exiles whom I have sent into
exile from Jerusalem to Babylon: ' Take
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:wives and have sons and daughters.
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:Take wives for your sons and give
your daughters in marriage that
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:they may bear sons and daughters.
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:Multiply there and do not decrease,
but seek the welfare of the city
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:where I've sent you into exile.
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:and pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in
its welfare, you will find your welfare.'
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:For thus says the Lord of Hosts, the God
of Israel: ' Do not let your prophets and
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:your diviners who are among you deceive
you, and do not listen to the dreams
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:that they dream, for it is a lie that
they are prophesying to you in my name.
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:I did not send them,' declares the Lord."
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:For thus says the Lord: When seventy
years are completed for Babylon, I will
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:visit you, and I will fulfill to you my
promise and bring you back to this place.
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:For I know the plans I have for
you, declares the Lord, plans
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:for welfare and not for evil,
to give you a future and a hope.
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:Then you will call upon me and come
and pray to me, and I will hear you.
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:You will seek me and find me, when you
seek me with all your heart I will be
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:found by you, declares the Lord, and I
will restore your fortunes And gather you
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:from all the nations and all the places
where I have driven you, declares the
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:Lord, and I will bring you back to the
place from which I sent you into exile
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:Jeremiah's letter reminds them why the
judgment came upon them, because they
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:did not pay attention to God's words.
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:Yet God gives this beautiful
message of hope to a people that
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:were not in a hopeful situation.
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:And while He encourages them
to faithfulness today, He calls
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:them to walk in long-term hope.
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:They are still God's chosen people, and
someday the nation will be brought back.
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:And He's not just going
to restore their land.
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:He will do something in their
hearts during this captivity
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:Though the people were tempted to
put their lives and their families on
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:hold and to wish for the overthrow of
Babylon, God wants just the opposite.
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:Remember how the Israelites multiplied
rapidly while they were slaves in Egypt?
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:God tells them, "Continue to
be fruitful and multiply."
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:and pray for the good of Babylon,
because if it's secure, you will be also
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:There are a few reasons we have
to be careful in applying these
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:verses to other situations Number
one, God is speaking to His people.
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:If someone has not submitted
their life to Christ
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:their future looks very different
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:Because God's good for them would be
bringing them to the end of themselves,
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:just as we're seeing with Israel and Judah
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:So the audience matters.
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:Next We need to understand
that these verses were spoken
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:in a time of true difficulty.
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:You can't claim them and say,
"Everything's gonna be all right
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:because God has a good plan for me."
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:These people were going
to remain in captivity.
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:They would die in another land,
never coming back to their home.
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:They were removed from the temple, and
the ways that they were supposed to
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:worship God had been completely cut off
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:I imagine that some of you are in a
long season of financial struggle.
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:I want you to imagine that God said
to you, " On this earth, you will
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:always struggle to make ends meet."
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:And then said, " For I know the plans I
have for you, for a hope and a future."
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:Some of you battle constant
physical pain and discomfort.
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:It may rob your peace and affect
the way you're able to mother.
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:If God told you, " I'm never going to take
your symptoms away, but I know the plans I
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:have for you for welfare and not for evil.
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:What if you're in a difficult relationship
And God declares, " I'm never going
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:to heal that struggle, but I know the
plans I have for you, plans for good."
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:or what if you have an
ongoing parenting struggle
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:And God told you, "This child will
never become easier to deal with
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:for I know the plans I have for you,
plans for good and not for evil."
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:When we apply these words of hope
while acknowledging the struggle,
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:it's acknowledging that the rain and
the storm comes before the rainbow.
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:Our God is a God of hope, but so
often it doesn't look like we expect.
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:And if we go around promising people,
especially people that don't know the Word
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:of God or the character of God well, and
we issue trite platitudes like, "Oh, God
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:just wants to work everything for our good
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:they can be really thrown
off when hard things come.
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:and it can make them doubt the goodness
of God rather than cling to Him
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:these false promises remind me of
a crazy circumstance my husband
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:and I encountered on our honeymoon.
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:He had surprised me with a
trip to an all-inclusive resort
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:in the Dominican Republic.
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:We had everything we needed at the
resort, but there were a couple
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:excursions we were intrigued by
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:I remember eyeing one brochure
that featured a picture of a
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:hammock on an idyllic island.
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:I love hammocks, and I was excited
to see this island where part of
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:the Pirates of the Caribbean had
been filmed The brochure promised
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:we'd have a peaceful catamaran sail
while enjoying tropical beverages.
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:Next, we'd arrive at the island to a
delicious buffet and enjoy the hammocks.
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:Then we'd take a speedboat to a
sandbar where we'd get pictures with
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:starfish the size of a dinner plate
then we'd return back to our resort
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:We signed up and paid.
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:As directed, we were ready to go
before 7:00 AM the next morning
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:for our bus to pick us up.
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:Unfortunately, none of the restaurants
or snack shops opened before 7:00, so we
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:had to skip breakfast and weren't able
to buy any snacks or drinks for the road.
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:After we waited a couple hours without
seeing anyone, we were informed
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:that there was a bus strike going
on and our bus wouldn't be coming
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:We'd have to come back the next day.
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:Once again, we skipped breakfast, waited
in line, not quite as long this time,
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:before being told that the strike was
still on, but it was ending, and if
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:we came back the third day, we would
certainly be able to go We did so,
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:and thankfully, the buses did show up.
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:When we piled onto the sailboat, we were
stuffed like sardines, and instead of
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:being offered something refreshing, a warm
two-liter bottle of Coke was presented
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:to share amongst the 40 or so passengers.
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:We chose to stare out at the
incredible water and were amazed
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:by the beautiful flying fish
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:After a few hours, we
arrived at the island.
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:wondering where the hammocks were, I
inquired from the guide, His response
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:was a laugh along with, " There's
never been a hammock on this island
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:we were famished, so we approached
the buffet, which only included
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:small fish that still had the heads
on, that barely had any meat on
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:them, and had been burnt to a crisp
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:This did little to satisfy our
hunger, And we sat down in the
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:sand in the sweltering heat
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:After a while, we were instructed
to pile into a couple of speedboats,
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:eventually arriving at that sandbar.
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:And when we tried to lift these amazing
starfish out of the water, we were
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:harshly corrected that we could not do
so and could not take a picture with them
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:I didn't realize it at the moment,
but sun poisoning was setting in
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:on me I was starving, dehydrated,
and sunburnt, and I couldn't wait
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:to get home and into a cozy bed.
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:But next, our speedboat took
off, and we were far from land
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:when it completely broke down.
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:Sitting there wondering what to
do, we looked up at the sky and
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:saw dark storm clouds rolling in.
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:It wasn't long before rain
was pouring down upon us.
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:I didn't bring much that day, but because
of those promised hammocks, I had my Bible
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:in my lap, and I recall hovering over it,
trying to protect it from the pelting rain
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:it was a considerable amount of time
before another boat was able to come
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:back and rescue us, and then we had
a very cold, very wet bus ride home.
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:Incredibly, in the midst of all this,
my husband and I had the opportunity to
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:share the gospel with a couple behind us.
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:And even though we were elated over that
conversation, we were vigilantly watching
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:for when our bus would approach our resort
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:we watched couple after couple
exit the bus, and finally, we
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:were the only two that remained.
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:Our tour guide insisted we
missed our resort, but we assured
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:him, " Oh, no, believe us."
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:We wanted to get off
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:Without a word, our guide left us
with a driver that didn't speak
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:English, and he began to drive the
bus away from the lights of Punta Cana
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:and into the pitch-black darkness.
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:I think inside, my husband and I both
thought we were going to die that night.
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:But praise the Lord, the driver took
us to our resort, and we nearly kissed
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:the ground when we stepped off the bus.
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:We were relieved to be back, but
the sun poisoning was so bad that
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:I couldn't even go to dinner.
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:I just stayed in bed shivering.
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:So why did I share that
long story with you?
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:Because the false promises in that
brochure of the hammock on the island
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:with the buffet and the beverages and the
smooth sailing remind me a lot of when
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:people take Jeremiah 29:11 out of context.
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:Following God does not
guarantee smooth sailing.
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:The Bible actually instructs
us the opposite is true.
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:We need to be so careful about the
gospel promises that we present,
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:because it can truly set others up for
disappointment and discouragement God
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:does have good and a hope and a future
planned for His people, but we need to
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:be so careful about the expectations
we have of what that would look like
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:God blesses us with great joy, but the
hammocks and the smooth sailing are
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:probably not consistently for you on
this side of heaven And when you and
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:I go into our daily lives expecting
that life can be hard and yet very
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:good, it helps us to walk with God
in trust rather than disappointment,
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:striving to become more like Him
because that's how He defines good
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:And ultimately, when we picture Jesus
Christ on the cross, we're reassured that
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:the principle of Jeremiah 29:11 is true.
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:God does have a good plan for all who call
upon Him In the most painful sacrificial
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:death, when it seemed all hope was
lost, God was bringing about redemption.
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:Circumstances may not always look like
it, but God knows the plans He has.
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:If we trust and honor Him, it will
be for our good and not for our harm
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:we'll continue to look at some of these
promises because in chapters 30 through 33
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:God explains what the new
covenant will look like.
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:His people have been taken
away from the temple, and he
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:continues to lay the groundwork
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:for how his people will worship him
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:Heavenly Father, we are in
awe of the patience with
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:which you warned your people.
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:And we acknowledge that you have
exhibited that same patience with us.
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:We're convicted of the ways that we
seek good and comfort apart from you.
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:We long to be daughters that listen to
and obey you, Lord May we be surrendered
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:to the circumstances you've placed us in.
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:Help us to keep our eyes fixed on
the cross, where we're reminded
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:of the beauty that you can bring
even when all hope seems lost.
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:We pray for the welfare
of the nations we live in.
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:And that they would be
surrendered to glorifying you.
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:And when they don't, teach us
what faithfulness looks like
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:Help us to instruct our kids carefully
and to not offer them a false gospel
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:full of earthly promises and prosperity.
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:Instead, guide us in how to teach
them of how worthy you are, and that
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:we will never regret serving you
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:We believe our greatest treasure in
this life will be dwelling with you
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:and we thank you, Jesus, that you
purchased a hope and a good future for us.
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:It's in your name we pray.
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:Amen
